I've always had a problem with lists and labels--it's my right brain
mentality that resists classification or order.
 
Few players reach this most esteemed list. But, what about those who don't?
Do they count at all for something in a sport and a world which identifies
with classification by extremes--stars and losers? Where's the disclaimer to
assuage the egos of fallen stars and the disappointment parents share?
Programs like Maine produce and reduce em and that is the bare bones of it.
Don't misunderstand me-- there's in my book no better program to take off
from. But few in fact make the landing.
 
What lessons can we learn as parents and fans? In adding it all up, it's what
you learn about yourself and how you handle it--not whether you win or
loose--not if your on the list or off the list. An experience we've all
shared at one time or another. Like hockey's no guarantee disclaimer--life is
a rough sport!
 
As parents of Maine's aspiring players, do you remember watching them circle
after circle round the rink in their first skates? It was simpler then, no
gut spilling weight training work-outs, no body checks that send them to the
ice in a heap. The road to making it can be unforgiving but as parents we'll
never forget those first brave steps. And what those tenacious first steps
meant and still do-- is that it is courage and fortitude that makes men--not
winning and loosing--not if your on or off a list.
 
This summer through the wisdom of a much younger than I *True Bear's Fan* and
the actions of my own son--I learned this all over again.
 
 
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